One of my coworkers recently found out they're having their 4th baby, and if they have a girl they're going to name their baby the same thing we're naming ours. Problem is, they don't know that's our name. We haven't told anyone, not even our parents. They're having a gender reveal next weekend and if it's a girl I might tell them. But I don't want to because they have a big mouth and will tell everyone at work, and we don't want anyone to know until our baby's born. Ugh what to do...
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@kermi86, Also she is having her gender reveal the same day as my baby shower, even though she already knew about my shower, so it kind of makes me not want to tell her the name even more
@kermi86, Exactly! It's not their business, they should respect our privacy. Not everyone wants to post everything on facebook lol
I can tell you it has not been easy....so many ppl are so mad I won't tell but they should be glad I told them a gender bc it's not about other ppl it's about me and my baby so as much as the badgering sucks I just shrug it off. stay strong momma, we got this! 😁
@kermi86, Thank you!! And glad we're not the only ones not telling, everyone thinks we're weird lol
well for your sake I hope they are having a boy just so you don't have the extra stress to deal with. I'm not telling anyone but you guys on here what I'm naming my son not for the same reasons but I fully support keeping it a secret if that's what you wanna do. :) good luck ma'am!
@keithallen, Yep they told me. But we've had the name picked since wayyyy before they even got pregnant. I didn't say anything when they told me cuz they didn't know if it was a girl yet
Do they know you heard them the first time they said that's what they would choose?
@kermi86, I am due February 6, theirs is not due until June 21.
@blessedw7 Thanks!!
@junebugkae lol 😁 I hope it works out for u w no drama it's your name so run w it
@blessedw7, Yeah that's why I feel like I should tell them. And they might want to pick a different name once they know. It's such a predicament haha
I'd be afraid of not telling though because what if they claim you stolen there name (when in fact u didn't of course) but that lady won't see that
oh wow! sounds like she might be spiteful either way so if it were me and I didn't want to tell ppl I definitely wouldn't even if it's just to let her know you are already using the name...if she doesn't like it after your baby is born then she can pick a new name...not your problem! Lol