@lilleeandbrantley, is so right, and I've used coconut oil and haven't gotten stretch marks on my belly (yet I'm almost 35 weeks, well see if that will change lol) and I don't even use it that often. I had stretch marks on my sides from when I gained weight back in middle school, they've just gotten a little bigger and purple but only grew like less than an inch longer (maybe I should be putting coconut oil there lol) and on my boobs.. But I haven't put coconut oil on my boobs so I'm gunna see if I start to if the coconut oil will help reduce them ;) plus it makes a good healthy nipple cream.. Lol. Not sure if I have stretch marks on my butt, I can barely see my butt plus with bad eyesight even a mirror is impossible but my SO hasn't said anything..but he doesn't seem to notice any of them. Guys prefer real. If they have something against you having stretch marks then they aren't ready for a relationship, OR to be in your kids life. A guy worth your time will love you for who you are, stretch marks and all. And a guy that's turned off by your stretch marks isn't likely a guy you should waste your time on ;)
Girl that was back in 05 Avon doesn't sale that anymore lol but there's another one they have everywhere my lil sis uses it and it worked wonders I'm gonna ask her I'll inbox you the product @franchesca
@franchesca, I know how you feel. I'm still very insecure about mine but I have them really bad on my butt and boobs my sides don't bother me so much they might later on. but I know how it is being a single mom. I was so scared to show my fiance my body at first I would almost cry but then he told me he loves my body the way it is. he doesn't want perfect. I realized a lot of guy don't like perfect bodies they like when a girl is real and knows she isn't perfect. it will get easier I promise but try getting bio oil and maderma (idk how to spell that) I heard it works great I'll be trying it after I have this baby
I feel so insecure because of them I am scared of my body after especially being a single mom it's like who'd want me like that after I know it sounds crazy @lilleeandbrantley
Once you pop they will be dark lol but you should use stretch mark creams to help lighting them not everyone's goes light on its own it does take time I had to use this Avon cream that reduces them it worked and I had big purple ones and now they are tiny and white
mine did with my first but now I'm pregnant with my second and got stretch marks on top of some on my side so now I have a few pink one the rest are white