My bf and I were planning to have a baby once we planned it and it happened he was happy now that I'm getting along in my pregnancy he slowly drift away saying he's not ready as he thought he was in sick and tired of crying and wasting my time with him trying to make him come back now he's moved on I blocked his number I don't want nothing to do with him am I wrong ?
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@pjones328 received! Well stated and I needed to hear (read) it
Guys are a bit different then girls when it comes to this like we freaked out they do only difference is they don't have the occasional kicks to bring them back to reality that this is real it took my booboo a while this pregnancy was completely unplanned so we both took a min but when it hit him that he was actually going to be a daddy this wasn't something fixable he fell in line and now he is awesome don't chase him let him do his own soul searching if he is a good man he will come around
It took my fiancé a little getting used to the idea but as soon as he saw our babies he was excited. We have talked about our future together and having babies the whole time we were together (4 years) but it still wasn't planned so we both were shocked. I couldn't imagine him just up and leaving me. I know he loves me very much so that was never a thought in my mind but you can find someone who doesn't care you have a child and they will love you and your baby unconditionally
My sister in law is actually in the same position she just keeps chasing after his ass. Forget him !
Girl f**k his irresponsible ass. How do you sit up here and plan a baby and change your mind later?
@pjones328 well said. my fiance freaked out alittle harsh but he has anxiety issues. when I was pregnant with my first it was off and on planned. we were young. and he found new friends that were a bad influence. they would tell him that I wasnt worth it and to dump my ass and pushed him towards other girls. he ended up leaving me without a valid reason just that he didnt want to do this anymore. the last few months of the pregnancy I left him be as much as I could. to the point I didnt want to tell him my water broke lol. but when he got to the hospital, he was completely different. he cried when our son was born and held me like I was going to disappear. weve been together almost 4 years now and have baby number two on the way. as she said, if hes a good man, he will come around but let him do it on his own. you cant force it hun. good luck♥