how long did everyone wait to have sex? what conflicts or issues can occur if you dont wait long enough? i had my daughter nov 24th. seemed to be healing well. not even bleeding much anymore, few days after labor stomach was gone and i was up and about. well i had sex today. it hasent even been 3 full weeks. curious in everyones stories or opinions. it didnt hurt to badly, and i didnt bleed afterwards. was just a tad sore i suppose while doing it. fine after though.