🚨🚨🚨!!!!RANT!!!!🚨🚨🚨 Husband is not making this any better on me. He txts from work to check on me &…
🚨🚨🚨!!!!RANT!!!!🚨🚨🚨
Husband is not making this any better on me. He txts from work to check on me & automatically I tell him everything I feel. Now he's telling me that it's all in my head due to the doctors appointment we had yesterday. Uh noooooo. I am just aware now of what I should be concern about. When she asked if I had headaches, I said yes. And I still do. When she asked about my heartburn I told her yes I had it. And here I am awake because of heartburn. She asked if it was the worst I ever had but lady I'm Hispanic,my problem is I don't know when anything is too much! My Mama raised me to just take it. "Sabes que, if it's not broken and you can still walk, then the only place you're going is to school. Undale go get ready,go drink a 7up, rub some Vicks on it, y ya!!! Go to school, if it's that bad the nurse will send you home"!!!! THATs what I heard growing up. So NOW that I'm older my pain tolerance is high enough to where if i can deal with it, I do. And when they tell me this and that isn't good THEN I'm like oh. Well I have that & that & that too. Doctors look at me like why haven't you come in....um well I can handle it so I don't mention it. Anyway he's making it seem like it's just me complaining but it's not. I'm just aware now of what's going on with me that shouldn't be. With my daughter it's different. If she sick, I keep her from school. If it's a fever I can't control in 24 hours myself, we go to the doctor. If she falls or gets bit by something and it swells or hurts, we go to the doctor. I dont want to risk anything with her and fortunately I'm blessed enough to be able to pay for co-pays, & take off work if i have to so i do. And that's how he was raised too. But not me. i dont know its bad until you tell me its bad until you tell me what i should be looking for and when its happening then i know to tell you. But its not all in my head and dont make me feel like it is!!!!
💞Astrid💞·
that's how mami raised us too. and she is a doctor in my country. I don't know when is a lot or when is so little. to the point the other day I fainted down and I couldn't react to anything bae said to me I was just on the floor sitting like I couldn't talk or open my eyes . he was slapping my face and I didn't feel it. that was while we were taking a shower. 2 days after I kinda fainted again but I runned into the house to get AC and sit down. when I went to the wic appt I told to the nutritionist what happened and she went like WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU DIDN'T WENT TO THE DOCTOR??? NO EVEN A CALL?? . she was concerned. and I felt really bad .. then in my next appt with the doctor I told her that, and guess what. she's latina and just like my mom 😔😒 like "just keep taking your prenatals and drink a lot of water" and I was like 😡 ok thanks!
💞Astrid💞·
I guess now is more about to take care of the baby inside you and what is insignificant for you can be really bad for the baby. now I'm more aware of anything.
dominique camille·
Мама дочки (11 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
Oh definitely @astridoll ! It doesn't help either that some doctors are so vague on what we should be looking out for. Yes I have a child but my daughter is 11 years old. I raised her alone 1/2 of her life, I was 18 at the time I was pregnant, I'm sorry I don't remember every little detail of how I felt at every hour when I was pregnant! Lol I'm literally starting over and this pregnancy everything has been different! And I hate when we tell them what's going on and they pass it off like "well....that's pregnancy " because it just makes us feel like why bother? But you're very right,it is all about baby now and if I have to go everyday to make sure my daughter is fine then so be it. I've given up my wish for a vbac and will take a surgery any day if means she's ok and unharmed. It's just the waiting for confirmation that's killing me. I don't want anything to happen to her in the mean time.
💞Astrid💞·
I bet your baby is strong and healthy ❤ pray to the Lord he's the only one who has control over everythig.
dominique camille·
Мама дочки (11 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
Thank You @astridoll 😊 Yes Ma'am I have been praying and believe everything will turn out for the best!