I wish my boyfriend would be more sensitive to my feelings when he talks about my weight. If I eat a…

@carlyann00, First, he's a jerk and that's never okay. Second, you're young, you'll bounce back way faster than you think you will and if you plan to breastfeed it will help. Tell him, next time, he can carry the baby and you'll be the one who gives up nothing and sits back judging his every move. Women sacrifice so much for pregnancy and to have healthy babies, their body's are one of those things and if he can't handle it then HE has the problem, not you. His only job is to be understanding and supportive no matter what. Period. Don't put up with it or he will always think it's okay to speak to you that way. I wouldn't approach it in a way that shows you're hurt anymore, since that doesn't work. Approach it in a way that says, "I will not tolerate you speaking to me that way, it's unacceptable and I'm done hearing it." Outline all of the reasons why you are the only person who is changing, sacrificing and dealing with it so he doesn't have a say.

@dontberidiculous, thank you that helps a lot. I will try that next time!

@carlyann00, I know I kind of went off there but my SO is very supportive and understanding yet there are things I still have to bring up to him. I hate the thought that women are being treated poorly by the person they need the most in their most emotional and trying time.

Wow. what a jerk. Don't listen to him, I say pray you bounce back nice and steady. I went back to my pre-pregnacy weight in two weeks and I got stretch marks because of it. I think you should eat whenever you feel hungry. Baby's health is always #1 and I'd he can't see that then he's blind.

Well when you loose it all and look fab you can stuff a Twinkie in his mouth and tell him told ya so!

@carlyann00,

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