I'm very upset at my mom. Ma When I told her that I could lose my daughter by living with her…
I'm very upset at my mom. Ma When I told her that I could lose my daughter by living with her because the house has bed bugs in it, she flipped out on me nd called me an ungrateful bitch. When I tried to get my and my daughters thing, at first she refused and then she told me to get everything by myself in one trip. She put almost everything in the crib. I had given birth barely 3 days days beforehand. What upsets me no isn't how she acted, because she's always been like that. She took some of my clothes I lended her. Didn't give me any of my ultrasunds and I barely had any to begin with. Didn't give me half of my daughters clothes or deterent. Didn't give me the cake toppers from my baby shower whih I wanted to keep. This is my frst child and I wanted to hae allthe keepsakes and she ruined it. Sad part is, this is he first grandchild and she lost the privilege of seeing her. She's not a mom, not in my book. No mom does that. It was bad enough when se chose my abusive stepfather over me. Then makes it seem like it's my fault fo him beating me. I don't have parents, I have donors.
Jamie·
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I'm so sorry you're going through all this. Family sometimes loses sight of what's important
Meagan·
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They do, and have dealing with it since I was 10, im 18 almost 19 now, I'm officially done. Thank you. @chichimango
Jamie·
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@meagansimone, I unfortunately have dealt with my mom on some level. I love her but she's somewhat detached and unrealistic. But you have to stay positive despite everything. Is there a way to get the things you need and say with someone?
Meagan·
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@chichimango, I'm at my mother in laws. The only way I can get my stuff, if she hasn't trashed it, which she probably has, is if I get a police escort
Jamie·
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That's terrible. I'm sorry hun. Consider getting a police escort to recover your things
Meagan·
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I'm thinkin about it. @chichimango , if it weren't a 3 hour drice, I'd do it in a heartbeat. I really don't want to cut my losses, but I might. I don't know yet.
Brittany Wellman·
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I would highly consider it just for the keepsakes alone. getting the rest of your stuff would be nice too but you cant replicate those ultrasounds or the cake topper and such. those are one time things, important things. you know?
Meagan·
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@bitty_mommy15, I know. I'm going to go through my stuff once more even though I've looked through it a dozen times to see if I can fin my ultrasounds. My main thing on it, is that I bet she trashed all of it because she's alays been a rude and petty person. if I don't d what she wants, I'm the bad one.
Brittany Wellman·
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gotcha. I hope you did manage to get some. im sorry that happened. especially bot long after giving birth. :(
Brittany Wellman·
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oops. meant not*
Meagan·
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@bitty_mommy15, I hope so too. It was hard enough getting any ultrasounds because for the first 5 months, I had no insuramce and no money for a doctor. So I have ultrasounds from only two appointments. And then the last 6 weeks, I had to move and no doctor wanted to see me.
Brittany Wellman·
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I can understand the last part. I moved 8 weeks prior to having my daughter and the doctor wasnt very happy about seeing me. honestly I saw her partner more than her.
Meagan·
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@bitty_mommy15, it was hard. They all refused to see me so by thetime I got an appoint, ent, my daughter came right before my appointment.