I'm in the same boat. It sucks..

Thank you @mommaz I feel like my SO is trying to fix us with that, and it's not working and he's stubborn and won't open up.

why would it? ;) if every relationship could be 'fixed' just by getting laid then there wouldn't be so many divorces/breakups. Dig a little deeper and find out what's really hindering the relationship. Best wishes!