my mom is schizophrenic, my sister (11yrs) and son (6) are ADHD and Autistic, I have an active 2yr old, a newborn ( 3 months) who will only breastfeed, I really don't like my stepson (13 yrs old) and I'm allergic to my 2 dogs hair dander. oh and my spouse is acting like I do nothing! feeling depressed and very angry all at once at the moment.
yeah I'd speak to your spouse, especially if you don't like your stepson, that's harsh an action needs to be brought to the table. he's a part of your family now, an hating on him will only cause more problems.