Questions . I'm in a committed serious relationship with this guy over a year now . We have son who will be two months old soon... I have a daughter and he Alreadly has two sons from a previous relationship so that's total of 5 children but anyways .... I would say things went fast . We moved jn tog as a couple back in the summer and learned how to get used to each other living tog but lately we've aruged ALOT it got so bad few weeks ago he broke the front door Knob n also took down a bedroom door ...we have called each other names n all that stuff but the things he say to me was really hurtful. Like calling me a bitch n the list goes on. I do love him. I kno he love me . He's just under sooo much stress with bills, taking care of me n kids but like I told
Him it's no excuse to take it out on me but few days ago we got into it again but long story short ... Baby was in bed tryin to sleep n he won't leave me alone he was yelling as he sat on bed so I kicked him twice in order to get him
Off n getting him to leave I guess he got mad n I told him I dare him to try to hit me because he was soo mad u know what he did?? He SPIT on me . I got sooo heated up
I kicked him out then I was ready to leave but he cried sooo hard n shaking n tried to say sorry blah blah . I haven't talked to
Him for two days . I talked to his mom because she knows we have been aruging n thinks we need to seek counseling but I dunno. It's just I'm tired of aruging all time but the fact that he spit on me?!??!? I can't even look at him the same anymore. I dunno what to do? Like I feel liek we need to breakup but at the same time we love each other too and we have kids and everything . I'm just stuck . Ladies what would u do? Leave him or stay n make it work for the sake of kids??