My kids are 9 years apart thr youngest being 7 weeks. The baby is my Fiance's first although he…
My kids are 9 years apart thr youngest being 7 weeks. The baby is my Fiance's first although he treats the oldest as his own. Anyway I have baby about 20 hrs of the day. My fiance works fill time so he is gone all day. When he falls asleep he is OUT, like he wouldnt wake up if a train hit him, so I have to get up with lil man as well. I told him im done with kids after this, I dont want anymore and he does ugh
sarah·
Мама двоих (младенец)
wow that is exactly what I am going through! like everything I have a 9 year old daughter that isn't my boyfriends but he treats her like she is his own, me and him just had a baby she is almost 4 months old, he works in a town about a hour an a half from where we live, so he stays there with family so he's hardly ever home. an when he is home he just sleeps. I don't want anymore kids but he's all "there's gotta be a boy in there" if I had more help then maybe but honestly I'd rather not have anymore.
xoxo512070·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@sarahelizabeth, that's crazy how close our situations are! My fiance even works about an hour and a half away, except he comes home, but usually late. He wants a girl since we have 2 boys, but im completely good with 2 kids, and I feel the same, MAYBE and that's a big maybe if I had more help I would think about it, but nope, not happening, my factory is closed!
sarah·
Мама двоих (младенец)
right! lol I wanted to get my tubes tied an he freaked out so I got on birth control, I'm also happy with just the 2 kids. I told my self a long time ago that I won't have anymore kids after 30 an well I'm 29 now an I'm sticking with that! lol
xoxo512070·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@sarahelizabeth, haha see I thought about it while I was pregnant, that's why I didn't tie my tubes, until I remembered how hard it is alone. Age is another reason, im 30 now, and I would like to enjoy life with no young kids sooner then later lol
sarah·
Мама двоих (младенец)
lol exactly! my body didnt handle this pregnacy as well as it did the first lol...it is really hard alone. I didn't realize how much help I had from family an friends with my 1st until now. it makes a huge difference with help I now live 16 hrs away from them and I've only had about 4 hours away from my 4 month old since I brought her home, I love her to death an would do anything for her but man what I would do for a couple hours of me time.