Look at it as there is a balance in the home they get both kinds of discipline. As look as your kids are not been abuse I think it's healthy way in the long run.

I kind of agree with the situation too. kids have to learn that not everyone will be nice. especially these days. I also think that father's should be seen as strict by their parents because it shows them who the man of the house is. if it's only when he's disciplining them and not all the time, I wouldn't stress about it. he's teaching them tough love. which kids need.

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There's a time and a place for different kinds of discipline, do some research and see what works best for the both of you, but you need to be on the same page or it doesn't matter what kind you decide on. If it's not consistent and logical for the child then yelling, hitting, etc. will not work. Personally, I lean more towards gentle parenting. I do not hit my children, even spanking. I believe it instills fear and the child behaves because they think I will hurt them, not out of respect as if I explained to them their wrong doing. Have I raised my voice to children? Definitely! But again. There's a time and place. Just please do research and be consistent.

I don't know I'm not a parent yet but from what I learned with my parents and my siblings is sometimes kids need to have a parent who's firm with them . For example I was always really well behaved my parents never really had to spank me or yell at me but my siblings were the complete opposite my dad had to be firm with them and spank them or else they refused to listen to anything. But there is a difference between being firm and enforcing rules and being abusive if you feel hubby is close or crossing that line maybe you should talk to him again but just make sure you don't do it in front of the kids they will see it as a weakness and exploit it like my little brother did

I personally agree with your husband... but you guys should definitely talk it out and come to some sort of agreement

my hormones are too much lately. I cried while the toddler was in timeout lol good luck, I know you two will be able to find balance in the two