sorry I just need a place to rant.
background info: I'm from Kentucky but I live in Germany right now. my mom has raised 3 kids and my aunt is 61 with no children.
my mom and aunt came over for a month. they've been here about 3 weeks now. My mom came over with her only mission being to help me out with my baby since it's my first kid. my aunt apparently came over thinking that someone who just had a baby is going to be traipsing all over Germany. I'm so sick and fucking tired of her constantly asking what we're doing and where we're going. this is not a vacation for me. this is still my every day life and I still have things to take care of for work and every day living over here. the 6 weeks off I get from work are so I can recover from childbirth and take care of my newborn. she posted some pictures from our trip to Bamberg today. one of her friends asked if she was enjoying her time in Germany and she posts "I'm here with my sister who came because her daughter had her first baby. I had lofty hopes of more adventurous excursions but I've enjoyed what few trips we've taken." bitch please. I'm also breastfeeding and just started pumping last week for daycare. oh and she is staying rent free on the futon in my spare room while my mom has been sleeping on the couch and buying all my groceries while they've been here. my son was also 2 weeks early, I ripped with him, and I got discharged from the hospital 4 hours before they got here. she was being hyper-critical and opinionated about everything in my house (which I just got in September) until I told her their first weekend here that it's my house and if I say something is a non issue then that's it and it doesn't need to be brought up again. now she just makes backhanded comments about being cooped up and restless. I'm about 2 comments away from dropping her off at a hotel.