sorry I just need a place to rant. background info: I'm from Kentucky but I live in Germany right now. my mom has raised…
sorry I just need a place to rant.
background info: I'm from Kentucky but I live in Germany right now. my mom has raised 3 kids and my aunt is 61 with no children.
my mom and aunt came over for a month. they've been here about 3 weeks now. My mom came over with her only mission being to help me out with my baby since it's my first kid. my aunt apparently came over thinking that someone who just had a baby is going to be traipsing all over Germany. I'm so sick and fucking tired of her constantly asking what we're doing and where we're going. this is not a vacation for me. this is still my every day life and I still have things to take care of for work and every day living over here. the 6 weeks off I get from work are so I can recover from childbirth and take care of my newborn. she posted some pictures from our trip to Bamberg today. one of her friends asked if she was enjoying her time in Germany and she posts "I'm here with my sister who came because her daughter had her first baby. I had lofty hopes of more adventurous excursions but I've enjoyed what few trips we've taken." bitch please. I'm also breastfeeding and just started pumping last week for daycare. oh and she is staying rent free on the futon in my spare room while my mom has been sleeping on the couch and buying all my groceries while they've been here. my son was also 2 weeks early, I ripped with him, and I got discharged from the hospital 4 hours before they got here. she was being hyper-critical and opinionated about everything in my house (which I just got in September) until I told her their first weekend here that it's my house and if I say something is a non issue then that's it and it doesn't need to be brought up again. now she just makes backhanded comments about being cooped up and restless. I'm about 2 comments away from dropping her off at a hotel.
Sierra·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
I sure hope u can take advantage!!!
LenaBear·
Мама сына-младенца
they're only here until next like Thursday @positivemommy
Sierra·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
Yeah so she knew it wasn't gonna be a vacation. She should b helping too. Sorry u have to b stressed, when ur mom is there to actually help u when you need it. Keep ur head up momma, if it gets worse I'd definitely send her home so u can enjoy ur time with mom and baby. That's all the demands u need. 😉
LenaBear·
Мама сына-младенца
she doesn't say shit to me anymore after I went off on her once already about how this is my house and it's fine for her to have her opinions but if I say something isn't an issue then that's it and the subject is closed. and she asked to tag along @positivemommy
Sierra·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
I would personally feel like she isn't respecting me in my own home. And I would send her on her way. I mean was she invited to go or did she just ask to tag along?
LenaBear·
Мама сына-младенца
@positivemommy, I honestly don't get how she expected this to be a sightseeing trip when my mom was only able to take this time off work as part of fmla stating that as a single mother I need her help this first month.
Sierra·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
U should, u don't need the stress especially not now. Sorry girl. Maybe she just needs to go home, since she wants to complain.