when I first found out I was pregnant I was surprised but happy, once I told my boyfriend he was…
when I first found out I was pregnant I was surprised but happy, once I told my boyfriend he was negative about the whole things saying our youngest son is only 2 and that it's going to be so hard and didn't want me to keep it. Well here I am he decided to support me regardless but now I feel useless I feel no attachment, no excitement. I feel like I'm a bad my mom to my boys because I'm sick and have extreme extreme exhaustion. I've never felt like this with either pregnancy, I'm so darn depressed.
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it will get better ! I had a hard time in the beginning too . I didn't deal w my man not being supportive but I was depressed and it got better in second tri. hang in there momma
Porsché·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
I have a 1.9yo and a 2.9yo pregnant with baby #3.. I have extreme fatigue as well but it'll get better! They say. It's good to have communication with him because even though my SO was angry (per say) he is also happy and excited, scared. It's all worth it! Just have to talk about it because I wasn't feeling excited and depressed since it's a secret to family until Christmas, but once we had an understanding on feelings it all got better! It's his first, so he is entering a life changing event.
Porsché·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
He's really opening up, and is being interactive ...and I feel so loved now. I hope this helps!
Shannon·
Мама двоих (2 года, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
@livd15, thank I really hope it does. @porshhe I will try and communicate more with him I just feel like I will stress him out because he didn't want to keep in the first place and probably still doesn't. it sucks big time.
Porsché·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
Unfortunately it takes longer for guys to adjust because we become mommy right away. I hope you guys work it out ❤️
Shannon·
Мама двоих (2 года, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
@porshhe, thanks so much. how do you make it with the 2 little ones? if I don't get enough rest I feel like I will collapse
excitedmom37·
I pray it gets better. I understand how you feel. I'm so emotional but my boyfriend is so happy and super supportive.
Sunny 💋·
В ожидании первенца
The good think is your kids will be best friends and have play mates :)
Sunny 💋·
В ожидании первенца
Thing *
Shannon·
Мама двоих (2 года, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
@excitedmom36, thank you. @babybermea your right that's what I think about because my 2 boys are 6 years apart so I know the little one would love to have someone close in age
Porsché·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
They go to their dads half the week and I'm with them the other half so I do get time to catch up but it's the holiday season so I'm always working right now. Today was day #1 to rest but I had to get up for work still.
Porsché·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
Oh and caffeine. Lol
Porsché·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
And they'll be 3 1/2 and 2 1/2 when the baby is born so I feel like the age difference is not too far but not a year apart like my other 2 are.