smh instead of coming and helping me put the baby's room together like he said he would I get on fb…

try to be calm mamma bear. the last thing you need is to be angry when pregnant

I don't know why it pisses me off so much it's not like we're together @crystal_96

@brudd330, pregnancy can have you feeling all sorts of things. I hated it because it gets you super emotional! and well he is the father of your child so it's maybe why you would feel angry

I just want him around more I mean how the hell are u going to be like "how's our baby girl doing "and be like "can't wait to hold her" and shit and not be here for anything like come on now he hasn't even bought anything for her at all @crystal_96 sorry now I'm just ranting sorry about that

That's really fucked up honestly **sorry for the cursing** but yea if he really wants to hold her and asks about her then why not be around you? even if you 2 bump heads you're still the mother of his daughter. the least he can do is be around or show up here and there with clothes & other things for your guys baby.. it's ok don't worry sometimes it's best to let everything out :)

@brudd330,

Don't take this the wrong way... But it seems like you're holding out hope something may happen between you two... I say try and push him into the back of your mind me focus on you and that little angel.. You can't force a horse to drink girl... Trust me I had to learn the hard way also , just keep telling yourself it will be his cross to bear and his loss

And* not me

I'm not holding out hope that we will be together it just makes me mad cuz he told me he would come over and help me put the baby's room together the. come up with a excuse as to why he can't and then I see him hugging up on a ugly cross eyed girl and drinking with his friends but has the balls to sit there and say how much he wants to be there when the baby is born and how he wants to hold her and can't wait to see her but yet he hasn't been there for nothing he's just so annoying and I just don't understand him 😧😧sorry ladies thank u for responding and letting me rant a little @crystal_96 @isa238375

Well you know what.... Eff him! That's why baby girl take what he says with a grain of salt and push his ass all the way to the back until he does things on his own.. Don't like for him and don't expect him to do anything..... They all take a big game but never show up for it

I've already decided that I'm not going to let him be there when my little princess is born cuz honestly what what I've seen he doesn't deserve to be there @isa238375

Good.... Keep at it and pretend he doesn't exist ... Like if you were doing this alone, if he decides he wants In he needs to prove himself to his daughter

thank you for ur advice I'll make sure to stick to what u said cuz ur right he does need to prove to his daughter that he wants to be there for her and until then I'm done @isa238375

You're so welcome . he doesn't deserve you. you do you & be there for your daughter, who will be needing you the most. Hopefully he sticks around a lot when your daughter is born because no child should have to go through a situation where his or her father shows little to no interest in them. and if you ever want to talk I'm here. just message me whenever :) (btw I'm not trying to be creepy!!) just a helpful person :) so don't take it as a weird thing