is it wrong of me to not want my MIL in the room when I'm giving birth?? I feel like that day is…

I'm not having my MIL in the room when I deliver

I don't want to have her in there either but my husband keeps arguing with me that it's not fair that I will have my mom in their but not his. that he wants his mom to also witness our son being born wtf hell no! -_- @mommasboys

thankfully my bf doesn't care. he's not big on my stepdad being in the room, but my mom and stepdad are all I had when I had my first son so he's not arguing with lol

just say, well I plan on being naked, does she really want to see that? omg just enjoy the baby when he or she is out. I'm having the same thing with my mil. Luckily my husband doesn't care but she thinks she's going to be in there and I'm like uh no.

I only had my boyfriend in the room when I delivered a

you guys are lucky! my husband keeps biting my head of because of it and I honestly am a very timid person even with him i wouldn't even let him see me when we would do the deed I would always turn off the light because of how insecure I am and he knows it too! idk what to do :/ @mommasboys @nerdmamatn

it's your labor. it needs to be you being as comfortable as you can be. he's being really selfish himself if he's not considering your feelings with the hell you're going to be going through. it's different to want your mom and your sister because they're your family. sorry, it's his baby too but it's different when he's not the one pushing it out.

it's your labor. it needs to be you being as comfortable as you can be. he's being really selfish himself if he's not considering your feelings with the hell you're going to be going through. it's different to want your mom and your sister because they're your family. sorry, it's his baby too but it's different when he's not the one pushing it out.

its perfectly sane. mil dont belong there. only suitable people are hubby and the one who gave birth to you. thats whom i had in my labor. its just a very intimate personal thing. if you dont feel comfortable that adds to stress and it hurts labor.

my hubby was also pressuring. they just dont understand. just tell him, if you where naked from.the waist doen delivering a kidney stone through your penis in front of doctors and me your wife, would you feel comfortable having my mother there watching you? tell him its not about his mom but about you. you dont feel comfortable showing your vagina to someone other then himself and the women who took you out of her vagina. and if he doesn't understand thats his problem. then ignore him for a couple days, he will get over it. thats what i did. nobody can tell you what to do. stick up for your self. labor is tremendously uncomfortable and painful. the least you need is to be worried about an unwelcomed guest. mil just dont belong there period. after baby is born then the whole family can come.

thank you ladies I feel better now my husband just makes me feel like I'm so selfish because I want my mom in there but not his. he just doesn't understand and I don't think he cares but I'm still not letting her in the room I just hope he gets over it soon. I told him his whole family can come see the baby once he's here and I'm cleaned and covered @nerdmamatn @yahuahsdaughter

good for you. it boils down to what makes you feel better. good luck!

good for you. it boils down to what makes you feel better. good luck!

not wrong at all. I told my mil straight out I didn't want her in the room. I mean I said it nicely but she understood that I wanted myself and my husband in the room. no need for an audience with your privates being out in the open ya know? that's how I felt