have a water birth and you most likely won't tear. Or have the doctor or nurse apply warm towels to your perineum while pushing

Oh haha well that's easy to do lol thanks for telling me that :) and will do

the drugs dont matter lol it's how "stretchy" that skin is. lol kegals are vagina excersises! when you owe you can hold it and make the stream stop, then start... that's a kegal. it's pretty much just tensing your butt musvles! lol but also, look up perinea massage! (:

I don't even know what kegals are or how to do Kegals >.> my OBGYN tells me nothing, they are very bad with that "communication" thing.. And I'm just unsure what to do because I don't want to tear but if I do I guess I do. Have people tear more having drugs or do they tear more without drugs.?

It really just depends on the woman. With my first son, I only needed 3 stitches for a small tear, I didn't even know it happened.
With my second son, I didn't tear at all. It really all just depends on mom and baby.

I tore with all 4 of my kids and my kids ranged from 5lbs 6oz-7lbs 1oz. I didn't feel any tearing till the doc told me

It's really a guessing game. Some women tear, some don't. My doctor said to do a lot of kegals throughout my pregnancy because it would lower the chance of tearing. Yeah.... I literally did like 9384293 a day and I still tore. I only had a 7 pound baby.