Ladies I don't know what to say or how to comfort my BFF who is going thru a miscarriage! Help!!…

You don't have to say anything. If you can't find words, tell her that. "I don't know what to say right now, but I am so sorry" and let her cry, give her a hug, offer to help any way she needs. Avoid saying things like "Well you can always try again" or any statements that start with "At least..." Basically, your presence and acknowledging that she has had a great loss is the best path to take. 😔💔

honestly I don't know if there is anything to say, I lost my 10 month old son and my fiance tried so hard to comfort me and make me feel better but nothing will ever make me feel better about losing my baby.

just be there for her and make sure she knows you'll be there no matter what.

There isn't much you can say. Just let her know that you're there for her for anything she does need.

when I had a miscarriage someone told me "maybe the baby would have been handicapped." worst fucking thing to say. ever.

Thank you ladies. I've been calling and texting her everyday. It just hurts me so much that she's going thru this!!!

As someone who went through it and did not have a very supportive best Friend just be there tell her how much she means to you and just let her know that you are there to talk or just be there sometimes I just wanted someone to offer to keep me company.

Thank you. Both myself and other friend have been in contact with her. I'm just heart broken because I've never been thru that and Idk how to comfort her.

me and my sister went through this. she miscarried as I was pregnant. it was devastating. tmi alert. she pulled me into the bathroom and she was covered in blood crying asking why there was so much. why wouldn't it stop. why this had to happen to her. I'll never ever forget that. if you're able a care package could be nice. some comedy movies maybe? some chocolates a heating pad or even a rice warmer. this is hard for someone to go through. let alone a best friend to watch. I felt guilty for being pregnant. even now I still do because I can tell she wants to be. just offer comforting words and anything else she may enjoy. shell thank you sugar.

sometimes the best thing is not to say a word and just be be there. I've had 3 miscarriages and all I wanted was a hug no words just to be held idk why.

Thank you ladies!!! The care package is a great idea!! @zombiemombie