if you are going to be a father to one be a father to the other, and if you can't then do not let…

if you are going to be a father to one be a father to the other, and if you can't then do not let that 4 yr old little boy call you daddy when all you do is ignore him. I don't care of he's not biologically yours or not. don't let him think you're his "daddy" if you really don't care about him. cause that's all I see. and she's stupid for thinking he treats them the same....