@babypaxtongrace, that's messed up both situations I'm sorry

Yeah my grandparents did it for me too but we have a certain place we have to apply for it here and we applied last year and they said we didn't qualify they honestly won't help you here unless your a single mom or a meth head 😩 and making $8 hr to take care of a family of 4 soon to be 5 is not enough I have tried to get a job as well but I don't have family that most young mothers my age have the only person I have to watch them is my mil and she charges and she wants nothing to do with our 1 year old every time she says she will watch him she takes my 3 year old to her friends house to play with her grandkids and leaves my baby there with my fil I had a nice job and came home and wondered why he had a busted head that was bleeding and they were laughing that he fell off the couch and busted his head open call me over protective but the only reason one of my babies ever fell off the couch was bc daddy wasn't watching them when I had asked him too if they let my baby fall off the couch they are not watching them and he doesn't change diapers so every time I came home he had a soppy nasty shitty diaper with baby rash and he didn't even want me to put him down because he was hurting @ritababy123

There are a lot of churches other places that give away toys and clothes and such for the holidays for families who can't afford it. My dad used to have to do that for me and my siblings when we were younger.