my baby girl is 7 weeks old today and my husband(first time dad) still won't let me leave her at home with him unless I'm literally running to the the store a minute away from the house...he was so scared he begged me to take her and had tears in his eyes...he said he doesn't feel comfortable keeping her while she's this small, do I just take her every time I leave the house or make him test the water and leave her so he can adjust to watching her himself?
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Well I'm 3 months in & still get that "dnt b gone for long" "how long u gna be" before leaving out the door...which only makes my mind race & I can never relax even when I do run to the store. 😞 so aggro
He doesn't like babies crying and my little boy is glued to my hip so if I walk to far away or out of a room and he realizes that I'm leaving he screams which sends my finance into a major whirlwind of emotions. So I just never test it and take my little one with me.
@theredheadchic, lol yea i feel like that too but the only thing keeping me from just leaving her on a not so quick run is ill feel horrible if something happens so I'm going to give him another month or so and then he should have caught on by then or I'm going to help him lol
@prestonsmommy, wow 13 months I hope he doesn't take that long to get use to her lol
I'm going through that & my baby is 3 months. Honestly, it pisses me off bc at some point I need a minute to myself & I think he just needs to suck it up & learn just like I did! That's just me tho..
I would just take her. My fiancé still freaks out over our little one crying and he's 13 months. Some men just can't take it. Mine is also a first time dad so he doesn't really know what to do when it comes to a little one being upset and he freaks.
@meganeileen6, I've tried it on the quick right around the corner trips and he does fine but of course she was asleep so it wasn't that bad...but even when we're home and she cries he panics and brings her to me and says he doesn't know what to do and he will stay right there by me until I get her to stop crying so I know he wants to do more he's just scared
ya I still won't leave my daughter with her dad alone she's 4 months
yea to be honest I'm scared to test the water because I'll be a nervous wreck but I just want him to get use to her by himself @myjulybaby08
if he's not comfortable with her yet don't test it he will tell you when he's ready.
@prestonsmommy, yea that'll be my luck she'll be the same way
@theredheadchic lol yep those are his words too...this can't be life they gotta get better lol