So I want my husband to build our Changing table and then I want to paint it. But we have someone…

So I want my husband to build our Changing table and then I want to paint it. But we have someone offering us theirs and its also a dresser. But the one that is offering has been a Royal Bitch to me when I did nothing but help her out with her son. And she decides to be even more of a Bitch when you don't say Thank You before she offers anything. Any input. I really want a homemade one though. Has anyone ever had one?