I'm 39 weeks, 5 days. In total, I have gained 14 pounds all together. I was devastated! I thought I didn't gain enough for the baby but my doctor said that we're fine. So I didn't stress over it. I just started eating like a mad woman even more

yeah I did too but I talked to my doctor about it because everyone I know is like "I gained 50 pounds by the time I was that far along" and I felt like I wasn't doing enough for my baby but he reassured me that I'm okay and gave me a good job for not over eating lol

I've gained only one pound my whole pregnancy and I'm 28 weeks. it's crazy. but, definitely okay.

I thought something was wrong because everyone i know who had girls got really big

yeah you're fine. Lol I've only gained 7 and I'm 35 weeks. consider your self lucky it's all baby and you won't have much to do to get back to pre baby body lol