I see how many people talk about how their child has an unfit father or an unfit mother and it makes…

I see how many people talk about how their child has an unfit father or an unfit mother and it makes me sad. I see all of these babies coming into the world or babies who are already here who did not ask for or deserve that. Instead of going out and drinking and smoking... spend as much time with your child and significant other as you can. They won't be little forever. They also watch everything you do. Hear everything you fight about. They are not dumb. Please step up and don't be someone who is always leaving their child with someone else. I get if you want to go out on a date with your significant other, have to work, or want one night to yourself. But please don't make your children suffer because you made a decision you're not sure you were ready for.... that's all I'm going to say.