With my first pregnancy I thought I peed on myself but I was confused since I was in so much pain with contractions & with my second baby I didn't even feel my water brake until the nurse told me I would say every labor is different what hurt u may not have been as bad for another mom and while there's woman who can take pain there are also woman like me who can't.. But thankfully there's pain mediation like the epidural that help with pain I got it with both my babies & thanks to it I was able to rest & have energy to when it got time to push

the worst part for me was the damn iv"s..... just really uncomfortable!