Venting! My hubby works nights. I had a couple if cravings so i asked him to pick up something on…
Venting! My hubby works nights. I had a couple if cravings so i asked him to pick up something on his way home. This was a total if five times not in a row either. He did and never acted like it bothered him. A few times i asked for him to go with the kids and i to get groceries so he could drive due to i was very nautious and its an hour away. We get into argument because he said i took advantage of him and that he feels like im not even a wife. That i can't even grocery shop by myself! That really hurts!!!
Tahtahme·
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Awe 😞 Does your 23 yr old live at home? Maybe she can help with those types of things if he is so tired. But tell him you wouldn't ask if you didn't need the support! He is probably just tired or maybe feels you aren't asking nicely enough or something....
liz·
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@tahtahme, We live about hour and half away:( I can suck it up and do it myself. I thought i was just lucky and he was very thoughtful. I didn't know he resented me for asking for help. He stops every morning on the way home for his soda. So i thought it wasn't out of his way. I always ask and never tell or demand. ugh so confusing:(
Tahtahme·
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Yeah he might just be in a bad mood. Just remind him he can say no and it wont be a big deal, he doesn't have to be all angry in his heart. my husband did the same thing, and I was confused cuz in my mind i was being VERY low maintenance....but guys are different and don't get it idk why...
liz·
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@tahtahme, Thank you:) Yes they are difficult, i mean different lol!!
Tahtahme·
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lmao I don't get their attitudes sometimes...you'd think they were the one getting kicked and feeling sick all the time!!!
liz·
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Haha! Isn't that the truth!