I know 18 is very young to be a mother, but I was told by a doctor that I couldn't make babies…
I know 18 is very young to be a mother, but I was told by a doctor that I couldn't make babies because my harmones were too irregular. I have a lot of things to fix in my life first but my baby is truly a blessing. I didn't expect this at all but I'm taking it by the horns and gunna be the best mother there is. I do t care if people judge and brand me as just another teen mom. they don't know my story and I might never get this chance again. I'm sorry baby that mommy is naive at times, but I promise you will grow up beautifully and I'll be there when you're sad, confused, and just plain hormonal. rather your a little boy or little girl , you can always count on mom to be there when you just wanna give up. all I ask is that you don't cause too much trouble while in my tummy and as I see you blossom into a beautiful miracle. you're the reason mommy isn't suicidal anymore, the reason mommy is staying sober, my reason to be happy to be alive, I can thank your amazing daddy for that. because daddy will love you like a precious gem. and I will give you his the dog tags he gave mommy for our anniversary, and hope you pass it down to your children and tell them how your dad was so brave he risked his life for a while country. and you will just love your brother in Germany he's so amazing, your dad gave his good a friend an angel too so you wouldn't be lonely, he's 8 years older than you and just a doll. and when you think you find the one I'll be there to tell you that perfect love isn't perfect, me and your daddy love each other to death but we also drive each other insane. we stayed strong even when we had every reason to let go and give up, but we accept each others flaws no matter how difficult. oh my little angel, if I hurt you forgive mommy, I don't mean to at all and I'm still a selfish, stubborn, young teenager and I'm growing just like you. but as long as me and daddy can help it, we will make sure you're never hungry, cold and lonely even if it means giving you the clothes of our backs, starving so you'll be nice and fat, and work till our sweat turns into blood. you are my gift and I'll will protect you from all harm. it's scary being a mommy, especially with what I'm going through, but I will never ever say that I won't do it all over again. but first I have to learn how to change diapers ❤❤❤
Randi·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
ugh drives me crazy when people criticize about age and pregnancy. I was pregnant at the age of 14 and let me tell you,that shit saved my life! I was outta control but the minute I found out I was pregnant I turned my life around. don't ever let age discourage you nor anyone tell you your "too young". nobody knows your circumstances. take this time to grow and make the right decisions and better your life for u and your child. congratulations by the way 😍
Nicol·
absolutely age only tells you how long I've been on this earth, not what I've been through while being on it. I understand people will assume I'm too immature to raise a child right now but my little ball of a miracle saved my life as well, without it(don't know the sex yet) I'd still be out trying to mess myself up because I had nothing to lose, and now for the rest of my life, I will be happy and thankful that I survived everything I did ❤❤❤ that goes for every mother, rather theyre 11 or 58, one day you'll stop thinking that babies are just poop and booger buckets, and realize that it's a little piece of you that will fill any void in your heart 😢😢😢 I'm so emotional fr lol
Nicol·
@randirenee,
Boymomx4+1girl·
I had my first baby at 18 he's now 8 years old but I was scared at first but he was and is such a blessing! You'll do great don't let anyone tell you otherwise!
Nicol·
thank you love 😊😊 really appreciate the encouragement and need it ❤ @kaylareese26
Randi·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
exactly ! I HATE when I still hear people say oh you was having sex at 14 you did this you did that. sure did. . annnnnnnnd?! like I said,nobody knows what brought you too that point and it's really nobody's business. just stay positive and always think about your baby including what you do and how it could it will effect your baby. that's how I got through it. and it truly saved me!!!! The baby is all you really have and they will love you no matter what!!!!
Boymomx4+1girl·
Your welcome ❤️😍@nikkimonsta
Nicol·
Yea, I mean honestly I think that once someone finds out they're pregnant they're not thinking of how they made the baby but rather on how beautiful the fact that we become two bodies at once really is, I understand why being under 18 leaves people judging cause it's hard to be financially , emotionally, and just over all stable but those are obstacles you later overcome . people just need to quit judging and be supportive. don't scare someone by putting them down, give advice and encouragement on how will can better ourselves and our baby, WORD 😂 @randirenee
hanna ward·
Мама сына (2 года)
I had my first at 18 he is now 2 and we are expecting our daughter in April! Congrats on your baby!!!
Nicol·
thank you hun ❤ @hward12