@youcanttamebre, Yes girl‼️ if they can make you feel like that them you can put then in the spot make them feel so low you know but don't b nasty about it be classy about it just to let them know lol

@ashley_abby20 thats whats going to happen

@youcanttamebre, their prolly just playing a joke on you but if not then you need to put them on the spot the day of the baby shower feel me

@ashley_abby20 yes they told me they was comimg to eat like wtf seriously

@youcanttamebre, Did they tell you that? And no laugh back at them an let them know to stop being cheap tell them it's a baby shower not a party

@ashley_abby20 people keep trying to make me feel like im wrong for not wanting them there just to eat like no and on top of that they bringing extra people for me to feed and laughing about not bringing anything

@youcanttamebre, Wow people can b so free loading Well you need to tell them that you did this babyshower for your son not for pple to b eating up all your food an using you tell them straight out don't come if you ain't got nothing for my son point blank!!

my opinion is than have just snacks there or no food and tell them to eat before they come...

@mommychina_ thank you well said !!

@dae thank you !!! i always bring gifts to everything i come too

you couldn't come to their baby shower and do that

exactly that's not selfish so if you spent all this money in a baby shower a baby shower is for presents for the baby love food and games but when you bluntly say I'm coming for a plate and bringing a ass of people no that's not acceptable you're telling me you'll he ok with that

@kris-tee-nah, well she is planning a shower to SHOWER the baby with gifts ... not shower their stomachs a with food she'll have to get . I know its for support and celebrating baby but at the end of the day they told her they are coming for a plate !

@dae i am like its one thing if your coming by yourself but your coming with alot of other people and not bringing anything and want me to feed you

@amiyrasmomm844 right i thought a baby shower was for the gifts thats what i heard this is my first child so Idk but am i wrong for feeling that way ?

@kris-tee-nah baby showers are for gifts not for people to come just to eat

Sounds pretty selfish... You should just be grateful that people are coming. Gift or not.

don't let them in that's a no no put your foot down on that seriously

what is the point if them coming that is just wrong smh

@dae thats what i keep saying , they keep saying we going give you a late gift most people who say that not going give you a gift at all and on top of that your bringing extra people that i have to feed like no its not right

don't allow them to come no if they don't have a gift they can't come in that's not right I don't like people like that a simple card with a Lil money is better than nothing