Anybody else not care for sex at all?? Since I found out in August, I hate for my boyfriend to touch me or anything sexual.
I feel terrible and I do it for him at times. But I truly am not in the mood. I have to physic myself up to do it. The first trimester I was afraid from losing the baby and didn't want to. Now I'm passed that and was expecting my sex drive to come back in the 2nd trimester and nope nothing, but my fear is gone so I do try and do it more now.
@deedee25, I'm the exact same way! I feel bad though cause he likes to touch me and stuff.. but if I'm not feeling it oh well I told him he could handle it himself lol (:
Same boat I'm in. I'm also 4 months but extremely high risk so no sex no playing no nothing 😡 My husband is very understanding but sometimes I can tell he is fighting the frustration. I feel bad but at the same time having an orgasm could cause me to start contracting again.
@rhonda.otero, I hope you get released soon! Sounds like your husband is handling it well. Mine will too. I have a healthier sex drive than he does so I will have a harder time. I just found out yesterday so I have a long road ahead.
@deedee25, you sound like your still early in the pregnancy your hormones may be just not into it. it's possible that'll make a flip and you won't be able to get enougj of him.
My husband is ok with it sometimes he gets frustrated but nothing to the extreme.. I just tell him I'm not feeling well And besides I might look sexy but I don't feel sexy! 😊
@deedee25, @onemoretime I'm not allowed to which was fine for a long time but every now and then I want it.. My husband says he's fine but I know it bothers him we did long distance for 3 years before we got married then got pregnant right after... So he only got it regularly for about 3 months... I'm sure it bothers him lol but nothing I can do
@cdgfreeman, I feel horrible sometimes, but he also tells me it's understandable. Other times I'm just like whatever & try to change the subject or think of something to kill the mood.
@onemoretime, I'm not allowed to either at the moment so that's a plus!!
@mrsprincessdenise3, @kaygrig How does your mate react to it? Or do u ever feel bad for not wanting it?
I feel horrible for not having sex with my husband he swears he understands but we've tried and my big twin belly is just all in the way and I just feel yucky
Lol I'm 8months I think I had sex maybe 2 times this whole pregnancy and I don't care either, I'm not even turn on when my husband try to get me in the mood the baby start kicking a lot lol like he's telling me to tell him to leave us alone 😂
Yea I don't want to be touched at all!