mine are people who walked out because i couldn't party anymore and now hes almost here they wanna come back

You should be picky, but be careful who you offend. my little sister wouldn't let me hold hers at all even as I watched her struggle to prepare a bath and things like that. very weird behavior, and I made her daughter a gift for the birth earlier this year and everything. it made me not want to hang with her anymore at all, and now how will I want to let our kids hang out? just a thought.

im due in 4 weeks and its like I don't want friends around that were not there from the beginning

Yep. My daughter is 9 now and I'm STILL that way, and I know I'll be the same with my son lol