one of the reasons why I can't wait too have a shower again. is Bc I am sick and tired of people in…

Wow! That's so unfair and inconsiderate! I would totally bring it to their attention. Mainly because you're pregnant and not fair that you have to risk hurting yourself cleaning up after them!

I told my husband about it. and asked him if I should say something. he said no and to just clean it out.

he says I complain too much. and I should be thankful I have a place to clean myself. @lilymama

Uhm I can understand where he's coming from but sometimes he just has to have your back. I remember cleaning the tub when I was pregnant was hard, and I would just do it after myself. I can't imagine doing it because other people are inconsiderate. There should be a clean the tub after you bathe rule especially since there's no shower.

Omg i have similar bathroom pet peeve! Only mine is the courtesy flush and toilet seat wipe. I do it for them at home and even at work. I am so wanting my own place as well. We can so it, but can they do it on their own?

yea it's really frustrating. I feel like how I feel and what I say isn't right. that I'm in the wrong. I feel like he never really had my back. and that in the end is gonna make me resent him. and I don't want that. @lilymama

and YES. there's times when my SIL doesn't flush the toilet and she leaves big ass terds in the toilet. and I have to also wipe down the toilet too after they all take there baths.

@new_mami87

Omg that resentment is terrible once it starts to boil! Ewww terds? Seriously? Hope you get your place you deserve your space and privacy.

yes. terds lol. it's nasty. makes me sick to my stomach. I don't want my girls around that kind of filth. I'm trying to teach them the right says to do things.

and thank you so much girly. I can at least say one,of my friends thinks I deserve it. lol. @new_mami87

My daughter's dad was like that... and his family. I had to briefly live with them while I was pregnant with my first and I was so disgusted. Hair clogging up bathtub to the point where the water would pool like a bath if you didn't shower quick, you'd always find a surprise when you open the toilet, the dogs would pee and poo in the bathroom as well because that's where they laid the newspaper down for them.... totally disgusting! I was raised SO different and when I was there I was in complete shock as to how someone could live in those conditions. Ugh, still makes me gag. I knew I couldn't raise my daughter like that and he wouldn't change... mommy had to do everything for him. So while I was still pregnant I told him I was done. He begged for a second chance so I gave it to him but before her 1st bday I was like nope and moved away. I mean be considerate especially since you're pregnant! I totally understand where you're coming from. When my daughter was 3 I met my now husband and he does leave shit everywhere still but at least I keep this home spotless because I just have nightmares about my ex's place lol. Now my daughter is about to be 8 and she doesn't like going to visit her dad at all. Luckily we live in another state but she's used to a different quality of life that she literally gets sick when we go there. We haven't seen him in like 3 years and she's just happy she doesn't have to visit that place... and yep, they still live there!

YUCK. that's just horrible. im,sorry you had to deal with that. I'm glad you got out when you did.

I'm more of a city girl. definitely not digging this farm life. it's been 2years. and I am beyond done living here. pretty soon the rats are gonna come back. I have too deal with the litter box being taken out maybe once a week of that. and I'm tired of just being depressed bc I HATE IT here. @emc229