Now that I'm 20 weeks and seen my baby & IT'S A GIRL, I am hoping I can better connect with this…

took me a while....

I did. I über excited when I got pregnant with both my boys. I had my youngest son July of last yr then I found out I was pregnant again in April of this yr. I was pretty bummed because I wasn't ready to have another child. when I found out it was a girl I was "yay a girl!" but still wasn't all that happy to be pregnant. it wasn't until I got into my last trimester when the kicks and movement became defined and time got closer that I started to feel better. but I'm blessed to have my sister and SO whos been very supportive of everything and now I cant wait to see my angel's eyes

took me a while too

I had my 2 oldest girls before I was 20 & are 20 months apart planned. I'm 27 about to be 28 & pregnancy wasn't in my future again I came to believe & here I am struggling to believe it & understand why.

Me; although I'm still a little early only being 12 weeks. I was super excited and attached to my last baby but at around 10 weeks I lost it. So maybe it ties it with that? Not sure but I really wish I was more connected. I cried hearing my last baby's heart beat but not with this one.

At 15 weeks I had to say goodbye to my daughter/son I remember when I had my next 2 being very cautious about getting excited but I was so young I don't think the same worries burdened me then as they do now.

I lost my 10 month old son and a couple months later I find out I'm pregnant. I love the baby in my belly but I don't think I was ready to be a mom again right away.