My OH has a bloody cheek. Max was crying out in his basket & my OH actually tapped me to wake up & pointed at the cot, then turned over & went to sleep! I love him to pieces & he's brilliant with Max in the day but when it comes to nighttime he is like the most selfish person in the world! I can't wait for Max to be better at feeding so I can express & do all these things to him!! Poor kid was crying & he didn't even pick him up! 😑😩