Just thinking back at my baby shower and I'm still a lil annoyed with my SO's grandmother tbh.…
Just thinking back at my baby shower and I'm still a lil annoyed with my SO's grandmother tbh. Simply because she tried to purposely embarrass me while I was opening gifts. I have really bad social anxiety (anxiety in general, really) and while I was opening gifts I was rushing through it. I just felt really awkward announcing what I got in front of everyone. Esp since it was only 10 of my family members and the rest were his. I didn't have any say in who got invited on his side so there were people I didn't know/barely knew, or just plain didn't care for. And there was about 60+ people there. Anyways, I was going through a bag and picked up this baby wipes bag, all I read was "huggies" and my mind automatically assumed it was diapers since it looked like the same diaper package I picked up from someone else's gift bag. So that's what I had announced. And all of a sudden I hear his grandmother chirp in saying "I'm going to embarrass you in front of everyone, but those are wipes, not diapers. I hope you learn the difference before the baby gets here." like really? That was unnecessary in my opinion. I know what the freakin difference is. It took a lot for me to just sit there and talk in front of a big crowd like that.. I really didn't need all the unnecessary comments. 😒🙅
deleted-user·
what a B. grandma bout to get punched. haha jk ..that was plain unnecessary lile just cuz ur old doesn't mean u can say anything u want
Samantha·
🙄 that was so uncalled for . Im guessing she's trying to throw jabs because of your age . That was really a bit extra smh
Mandy🌺·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@livd15 @sassymama29 Yeah exactly. I mean I love the woman and all.. But she tries too hard to be funny. I already had so much on my plate that day since the person who was supposed to host the games was late so I had to take over. I'm just glad I was able to control my hormones and didn't cry in front of everyone.
deleted-user·
ugh right. u didn't tho u rocked it !
Mandy🌺·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@livd15 thanks girly 😘
natasha·
I have anxiety as well n I messed up too.. n yes they both look very similar..but pay no attention.. that's the way she is.. n I'm sure no one will remember to make a big deal about it.. like I really embarrassed myself at my baby shower. don't sweat it hun
Mandy🌺·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@tashi Yeah I just hate that when I think back at my baby shower that I think of that and how much of a mess it was. But aww I'm sure it wasn't that bad. Like you said no one will remember 💕
natasha·
yes well u the one with the baby.. blame the incident on pregnancy brain lol
Amanda Hoopes·
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omg my fiances grandma anytime I explain I'm happy where having a boy bc of we have future kids I can use all of his stuff with the future kids even if they're a girl. bc of i had a girl first is be wanting the swing with the canopy etc and he would refuse to put a boy in that if we had a boy next. so I was mentioning how I'm happy we can use all of his stuff over again and she laughed at everything I said at our visit and told my fiance look he's already planning on having more and hasn't even had this one yet. it's like us pregnant moms think of this stuff. and everything I said was giggles. then she kept asking him about his ex where him nd his ex wife lived together nd goes his first son that she knows he never gets to see becuse she keeps him from seeing his dad which is why he's happy he has our family now and she just embarassed me horribly and I sat there wanting to yell hello im the woman in his life and has been for almost a yr. this is the grand baby were discussing. quit bringing up the past they been divorced for like 2 years. ugh. I know your pain. least my mother in law isn't that bad n hosting my baby shower for his side and I hope his ex or his son isn't mentioned becuse it's our day unless she mentions Ryan not kevin jr.
new_mami87·
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Like seriously? Did you fuckin know everything when you had your first kid? I kinda get the feeling. Watch what you sayb i'd be thinking yo myself "I'm pregnant and hormonal and I'm pretty sure all this shit will come to me, if you give me a second to learn!" God dreading the baby shower shit. Dont like to be center of attention! I get ya with the anxiety stuff.
Mandy🌺·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@babyhoopes1 ugh that's so rude. Especially the last part smh. People just don't know how to control their mouth
Mandy🌺·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@new_mami87 yup it's so awkward esp when I didn't invite half the people that came. It might as well have been my SO's baby shower cause they were all asking him who he wanted there and what kinda food and not once did they ask me..
missing189user·
I would have brushed it off and came back at her with a. . "I guess we have a volunteer diaper changer over here, you get all the messy poopy diapers since your the expert" & then gave a cute little smile lol!
Mandy🌺·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@pretty_xoxo_giirl_ 😂 damn wish I would of thought of that!
Amanda Hoopes·
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Lol we don't think of things tillnits too late lol pregnancy brain