I need advice on an issue I'm having. I am on my 5th pregnancy but I only have 2 children. (on my…
I need advice on an issue I'm having. I am on my 5th pregnancy but I only have 2 children. (on my third) I had my oldest 7 years ago. Then we got pregnant again almost a year after and we lost him at 17 we gestational. then 5 years went by and nothing. Then all of a sudden I was in the er with a tubler. 4 months after that I got pregnant with my daughter and she made it. But now I am seeming to have a hard time connecting with this baby. It's not that I don't want it. Or anything like that. I just don't know what to do. Has anyone else ever felt like this?
missing266user·
I've also had an abortion and then 2 miscarriages after. I'm almost 25 weeks now, and honestly up until she started moving I found myself super disconnected from her. Almost like I didn't want to get "too close or too attached" just in case something happened. I think you'll feel more connected you just need to give it some time. There's nothing wrong with what you're feeling at all.
Jeanie·
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
I can feel the baby move already and I still feel the same. I'm 19 weeks tomorrow and next Monday I have my 20 week u/s. But my husband is more excited about this whole thing then I am. I just feel like if I get attached that something might go wrong. My husband even had the nerve to ask me if I wanted to abort this pregnancy. I told him I could never do that and if I was ever thinking about it I wouldn't of told everyone I was pregnant.
Nicole·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
I feel like with my first son I didn't have as many distractions so I could focus on him more and enjoy being pregnant. He was my rainbow baby and the pregnancy was so easy. This time around...not so much... I have a toddler running around and things have been much more difficult in general with this pregnancy... I am ready for him to be here so I can hold him and love on him...
Jeanie·
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
My daughter was my rainbow baby. And I never knew what it was until after I had her. My first pregnancy was easy. I had no worries until the end wroth him. Then I thought I was untouchable wroth my second son and unfortunately he didn't make it. Then is like everything is the same with this one as my second one. I just don't think I could handle another loss.