Just got discharged. My water wasn't leaking. Mia is fine. My cervix isn't dialated. I was having…

I would but don't listen to me bc I'm man hating and so over there fucking selfishness

I was just in the hospital a little less than a month ago and they told me I was dehydrated as well which was giving me cramps. Mind you, I drink literally 7-8 bottles of water a day. Shitty feeling like even though I'm trying my damnedest, doesn't seem to be good enough. & as for your boyfriend, if mine pulled something like that I would 100% go to my parents. Sometimes you gotta leave to make them realize what they're doing is selfish and messed up.

@just9monthsx3 Ha! You and me both. He's bitching that we used so much gas to take me to the ER. But then guess who's going out with his buddies when we get home.... I'm over it. My daughters health is more important than your dumb ass friends

Yea I'd stay a few days give him something to think about! That's crazy he should of been worried about you gong into preterm labor ... Send him a videos of a baby in the NICU , maybe he will have a harsh reality check by then.

@lexrexx It really does. I make sure I drink plently of water. If I drank anymore I would be glued to the toilet seat all day. Then he was looking at me like I purposefully wasn't drinking enough water.... I bought a filtered water bottle with measurements on it for a reason! And I really don't know what his problem is today, and I could honestly care less. Don't whine at me because of went to the ER to make sure OUR baby is okay after I called (he told me to call) and they told me to come in. So sorry I ruined your plans. Now I get to have another argument with him about me leaving. Fun fun fun

@just9monthsx3 He's normally been concerned when I tell him what's going on. He rushed home last weekend when I was having intense contractions. But today... idk what the hell his problem is. He was just hoping nothing was wrong so he could still go out. I don't have another appointment until later in the week, so we'll see how he does without me until then

Omgggg I feel you 100000%. When I went and they told me I was dehydrated I didn't even want to LOOK at my bf because I knewwww he was going to have some comment about it. You're doing what you need to to make sure your baby is safe, if that isn't his priority, screw him. Guys just don't understand it I feel like. It's so different being the one carrying the baby. Maybe he will go out with his friends and you can pack and leave after he goes out that way you can avoid the argument and stress? That's what I did the last time I went to my parents for a few days.

@lexrexx They really don't. He whines like a baby when he's tired from playing soccer, or if his back hurts from walking around a lot. But if I say anything about my discomforts I'm over exaggerating and being a baby because 'pregnancy isn't that hard' He already knows I'm leaving. He's ignoring me now because he fails to see why I'm leaving even though I just sat there and explained exactly why I was. So he's going to go out with his boys and pretend like I don't exist then call me tomorrow asking me to come back home. Same shit different day.

Geez I'm sorry, does this happen often? Oh and how far along are you? Being pregnant is honestly the most difficult thing I have ever done in my entire life. I knew it was going to be hard, but I didn't know it was gonna be THIS hard. Aside from the physical shit, the emotional shit is totally crazy! Do your parents know you're coming or what's going on?

@lexrexx Not usually. We've been arguing a but more often these past few weeks than normal. Which is another reason why I left, so we could both have some space. And yes!Pregnancy is so much harder than I could have ever imagined. I'm so glad it's almost over. lol. But I'd still go through it a hundred times for my little girl. I just wish he understood better. They need a preggie for men. Haha. And yes. They live kinda far, so they're meeting me half way and one of them is going to drive me the rest of the way.