I don't think my mil appreciated me checking not going on the Facebook invite for my baby shower :)!…

Yeah, thats bound to set her off hahaha.

Haha she knew I was playing, since one of my fiancée aunts was joking with me about it :) and she's got a good sense of humor.. Most of the time :)

@rookiemom,

Been there! Mil's are hard to read when you're pregnant either way... And I consider mine like s best friend

Me an my mil have always been close but since my fiancé passed the bond has grown stronger especially since I'm carrying our daughter, plus I make sure to check on her everyday , because this is freaking hard @rookiemom

Awe. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss girl i can only imagine your pain. Im thankful she has you and this new grand babe, it won't change much, but give you both a reason to smile

I just take it a day at a time , and try to stay strong for my daughter and for him he told me if anything ever happened to him I had to be strong so I'm trying but it helps in a wAy being close with his mom we were the 2 people who knew him best besides his younger brother of course

@rookiemom,

Agreed, hang in there girl, let me know if you need anything! Your shower seemed as if it was coming along beautifully!

Haha well :) if she stays a girl ! My due date was changed yesterday so that means I was a little to early to 100% accurately see her parts fully developed so I've gotta go Friday and get blood work done , but if it's a boy he's just gonna have a pretty pink baby shower:) @rookiemom

Bahaha well either way, your baby will be beautiful.

Awe thanks:) and yours as well mixed baby's are always beyond adorable, my god son is mixed and I love that little chunk to pieces :)@rookiemom

He's alittle older now but has only gotten more adorable:)

Oh my gosh he's absolutely adorable! I cannot wait to meet our mixed little girl! Your baby will be mixed too. What a journey her grandmother will have explaining her heritage to her and you sharing yours too... If that is a girl anyways 😏🎀👣 keep me updated!