I just want to cry 😢 my bf can be so mean & insensitive sometimes. I wish I had just one friend…

What's wrong?

I'm sorry

@2novbabies, im just trying to figure out how I'm going to get to my doctor's appointments, since ill be moving an hour away from my parents I have to rely on my bf & he tells me im annoying bc I have so much I need to do.

@ktwins188, its okay. just frustrated.

I know how you feel girl.

sometimes I feel like my man doesn't even care but deep down he does

Who's your doctor? And I'm sorry he needs to be more understanding

@ktwins188, he doesn't care about my doctor's appointments thats forsure.

@2novbabies I'm going through Florida Hospital Women's Center in Ormond. but I have only seen them once & I didn't even meet a doctor. it was just a nurses visit to fill out paperwork.

I hate that all the doctors are in Daytona and ormond it's such a hassle to drive. And wow you haven't met a doctor? That doesn't sound professional

@2novbabies, I was going through the health department around 15 weeks, but they couldn't take me anymore bc I have Florida Blue health insurance & Medicaid. so I went like 10 weeks trying to be seen by SOMEONE before I went to Ormond to be seen. so I just had my first visit on Monday to transfer medical records & fill out paperwork. but I dont like them either. I was told I can't recieve prenatal care or deliever at that hospital unless im going to have a c-section? Like wtf

That makes no sense. I delivered there with my first and I had a csection but it wasn't planned. I goto Halifax Obgyn and I like it here a lot they got me in pretty quickly. They only deliver at Halifax in Daytona though. You could check them out. I went to Volusia Obgyn with my first but didn't like them

oh girl I feel you. my man makes a big deal Bout going to them. but I get mad and say these aren't just my babies there yours as well if I have to go then you have to go also.

@2novbabies, yeah that's exactly what it said on the paperwork. but Ive had so much trouble finding a doctor that accepts my insurance I doubt I could switch again.

@ktwins188, if I could go by myself I would in a heartbeat. but I don't have a car & im moving an hour away from my parents so I dont have their help anymore. I would give anything to be completely independent. but I let him talk me into not working bc im pregnant so now I have to rely on him mostly.

When it comes to labor and actually having the baby you don't have to do what they want (unless it's life or death) so you could sit there and pretend to agree but then when you go into labor just do it how you want no one can force anything on you

wtf. if you dnt have a care he needs to take you. that isn't right. man what a jerk I'm sorry but its true. does he even care about your baby its not like you have an appointment every three weeks like I do since I'm having twins

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@2novbabies, lol that's what I was planning on doing. just riding it out til delivery day

@ktwins188, he's a huge asshole sometimes. but he changes like the wind. tomorrow he could be all for taking me to the appointment who knows. he was just mad bc I got irritated with him bc im asking him all day what days he has off & he says "okay one sec ill check" then a few hours later I get a response. when by that time the place I have to go to to get the blood work done was closed. so I have to wait til tomorrow to schedule it. but yeah he cares about the baby, but like I said he's such an ass to me sometimes

I already told my husband if they try to induce me I won't show up and if they push a csection (unless I need it 100%) I'll go to a different hospital lol

@2novbabies, I thought about showing up to a different hospital too lol

Ormond is a great hospital over all though I loved my experience there. I've heard Halifax is great too so I'm hoping I enjoy my experience lol

damn well you need to tell him to change because your stressing out alot girl. and it's really bad for the baby

@2novbabies, I'm hoping I have a good experience. &I hope you do too

@ktwins188, I'd stress more without him than I do with him... I've been waiting for him to change for 2 years. but ive convinced myself I deserve him. although I'd give anything for a relationship that some of these moms have where their SO's treat them like gold. but its not bad all the time. when its good its great & when its bad its heart wrenching

trust me I know how you feel I'm in the same boat

@ktwins188, feel free to message me if you ever wanna talk 💕 & thanks for listening

Everything will work out! It always does

@2novbabies, i have faith. but thank you for listening as well 😊

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