Sorry girls... Here come a long arse ranting post!!!!
So the OH's brother has gone out and spent ridiculous amounts of money on fireworks for this year, and has then sent us a message saying he wants £25 from each of us (me, my OH, OH's sister and her partner) without even discussing anything with us first! Now I know £25 isn't a lot of money, but when you're on a pretty low income like me and my partner, even though we both work full time, have a house to run and a baby on the way, it is a fair amount of cash I could be spending on other things! Now I told him I was happy to contribute, but that I wasn't happy with the fact he didn't discuss it with us all first! He then tells me we're all selfish and want to just spend our money on ourselves, now that was like waving a red rag in front of a bull! So I went off on one at him about it and told him a few home truths about himself!! Now am I completely in the wrong like he's making me out the be or have I done the right thing and stood my ground?!? I genuinely feel to stab him in the face with a fork!! 😡😡😡😡😡😡