I am sooo scared for labor. I am 35 weeks and my boyfriend and I just went to our first class last…
I am sooo scared for labor. I am 35 weeks and my boyfriend and I just went to our first class last night. when it was over he started to get mad at me because I said that my mom was going to be in there with me. I didn't even think it would be a problem but now he feels like it's going to stress him out and he's not gonna be able to do as much as he wants. the last thing I want is to have him stressed out because that'll just make me stressed. but this is my first Pregnancy and I don't know what to expect and am sooo scared. :/
Anna-marie·
Мама дочки-младенца
you need your mom there , he needs to understand that
shanel·
Мама сына (8 лет)
yeah I understand being scared but if he just want it to be him in there just let it be him...my husband is the same way he only wants it to be him because with our first child my sister just came in the room as I was having my daughter and we both was mad and I could not say anything because I was pushing
Emily·
Мама сына-младенца
You will want your mom also it's about you I hate to say that but honestly you need to do whatever you feel will make you less stressed! You don't want to be stressed out for your baby while in labor. He will just have to get over it
Emily·
Мама сына-младенца
Like idk it's not really about him :/
Jessica·
В ожидании первенца
That's kind of how I feel, like I'm the one whose going to be in labor. I kind of get what he's saying, like it's our first child and he wants it to be our moment. I just honestly don't think she's going to get in the way.. it's a hard descion. I just don't know how I would even tell her I changed my mind, to not have her there..
Miranda·
personally that's yalls decision and I think his opinion matters to. its yalls moment and I could see were he's coming from. I see were your coming from too.