I left a not good relationship, the first month was hard... But now over 4 months out of there and I am so happy I am out of there. I'm a better mom, a happier me, my son is healthy, happy and will grow up knowing how you should treat people, and how to treat yourself. Your baby is going to watch you and their dad and learn from them. I'm in no way saying it will be easy to leave and being a single mom can be tough, at least once a day I want to cry, and once a day I just look at my boy and I'm so happy to be free and have him to myself!!!

as hard as it is, if it's that unhealthy for you and your child then yous should leave the relationship so it doesn't get any worse.

you gotta leave if your son has to see you cry and get treated poorly... you gotta always be strong for your baby. that's exactly why me and baby dad don't live together or anything like that. I'm not letting him put hands on me and her thinking that's normal. get out before it's too late hun! I learned the hard way...