so i really want to have a baby shower since its my first baby.. but my husband doesnt want to…

maybe have a friend or family member host it.... then it is not so optional 😉

my sister in law wanted to do it but he told her not to worry about it... he is not a party person. he's very independent i would say

@babycasey

tell him it's a celebration for baby and for family to see ur belly 😊

will give it a try thanks😊@datnavajogirl

well if she does a traditional baby shower, women only, then he doesn't have to attend... I agree with @datnavajogirl it's a celebration welcoming baby.

I'd tell him it's for memories and pics to show baby in future

Tell him everyone has one for the 1st bby not 2nd or 3rd. I didn't have one for this bby but for my 1st

you can do it after the baby's here n have a welcome to the world party

I agree with @islandftm a shower after that baby is here might be a good idea, then it's centered around the baby. I did that with my first, I had one when she was 2 weeks... It was great because then all the attention was on baby and not me! lol

i was thinking about that the only thing is that my baby is due december 19 right before christmas and new years eve, everyone is on vacation out of state or out of the country.@coraanne, @islandftm

@ethansmommy12192015 you can wait until the middle of January but have the invitations out so ppl can be on the look out for baby things on sale

yeah thats probably what i will be doing thank you girls😁