Well my boyfriend of a year just informed me (after I told him in the beginning that I wanted to get married in the future) now says he never wants to get married because everyone else he knows, their relationships have ended up in failure and divorce. ( Now my daughter just turned one and he isn't the dad but she looks up to him like that, and I've invested a lot in this... I broke down my wall... ) I don't know what to do at all! I'm so scared I feel like he is trying to push me away on purpose because his attitude towards me is so harsh some days, and he will say mean things jokingly, today he accused me of cheating and his boss said it as well, but he was joking? I posted a picture saying "I would never cheat on you id maybe steal you food but that's it" on Facebook and then he said randomly that his boss thought I was cheating mind you I got laid off a week ago! And I'm home all the time! With my daughter! I love this guy a lot but I've addressed a lot that the things he says hurt, and he still isn't getting it... Idk what to do! I'm jobless, my family won't help and I have no money!
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Don't ever settle girl. I was single with my son up until he was almost 2 1/2. I literally gave up looking for someone, and then my husband just popped out of no where. And my husband adopted our son. You will find it. Do what makes you happy and don't be afraid to get what you want. It might also make him Chang his mind on marriage if he sees your not scared to leave. You can do it. I went to school,worked 2 jobs and had a baby. I hope everything works out!!! 😊 @laugh94
I'm sorry Hun! I know mine isn't has terrible as some but I just don't know what to do, like do I have to have the ring? I love him but I can't leave because I'm not financially stable.... I don't want to give up on the guy because he doesn't want to get married but I want better for my daughter, I never had both of my parents. @monilovesautumn
I feel your pain , i really do. I had to resign from my job due to medical reasons with my health and then they said it's not safe for the baby. but every since then I'm a broke bitch , and stupid with "another man's baby" supposedly. and today he told me to kill myself . so , yea I'm just as worse as you . but , all we can do is peay. keep on doing our duties as parents .
@momof1and1ontheway, I thought that as well, if I didn't leave maybe he would change his mind. But wasn't sure if it would be worth the wait because what if one day I pass where is my daughter gonna go... Because in all honesty is rather him be the dad.