Can anyone and everyone give their advice and opinions?... I'm having an emotional breakdown today.…

First off - how old are you? Not for a particular reason , I remember feeling like this specially after my son was born ( I was and am 22) and I felt like I wasn't ready I cried constantly . First off a lot of it is hormones I promise you , because once the hormonal stage disappeared I thought I was crazy for not wanting to be a mom . I fell so in love with my baby it was crazy! And it took me a few weeks to feel that way by the way. It doesn't happen right away and don't be worried , it's normal . Just remember - you can never feel that love it's a special love . Now my son is 8 months and I cannot think of not having him here .

Only you know what is the right decision for you and your child. No matter what choice you make, it will be right. I think adoption is an incredibly brave and selfless choice- but if you decide to keep your child, just know that you are 100% capable of being a great mother. I'm 30 years old and expecting my first and I've got to admit I'm scared to f*cking death. If you ever need to talk, you're welcome to message me. Sending prayers your way. ❤️

is there anyway you can help @preggie_usa

W.e is best for the baby is what you should do. I have my days where I feel like I can't do this and I'm not ready. But truth is your never ready, you just have to be be willing to put someone else's needs before yours

The way I look at it either way you're going to have to be ready and give up your life for your kids one day so why not now? The sooner you do it the stronger and more wise you become! I'm sure you will be a great mom

your not giving up your life your starting a new better one. I was 16 when I had my first baby. I'm truly blessed and happy I had her. now I have two other children and one on the way. you can do it hunny I did and I loved it. I was like you and though I couldn't do it but I did.

@mamabear01, sounds like you're getting great advice. If you do want to find local help for counseling or other services, please message us. We can look up some support for you. These are big decisions and not to be taken likely. We have some awesome members that can offer their experience and advice. Please let us know.

Is there any lo al places for @abanda6956 in her city??

Do you have a doctor or midwife yet?

I have a doctor

I gave my daughter up for adoption when I was 16. It was the hardest and best decision I ever made. I wasn't ready. I have an open adoption and see her on a regular basis and get to see the wonderful life full of wonderful things that I could not have given her. 8 years later I am with the love of my life and we are ready to start a family. Adoption is a hard decision but there are so many amazing familys and its worth it. If you need anything or just wan to talk, please feel free to contact me

i was 15 when i got pregnant with my son,its depressing coz the baby daddy is beating me and abusing me emotionally i decided to just continue it since im scared of the abortion..now hes 8 uears old and such an angel of mine..right now im 19nweeks preggy and was confused till 3rd month..i was thinking of abortion again but no,this will be another blessing in my life im 23 now😊 if we can do it you can do it hunny..alot of people will be proud of u for facing ur decision. god bless and congalrats😊