Finaly leaving my apartment to go hang out with an old friend i had before i got pregnant. i havnt…

I'm in that same situation

its so annoying. i had a little group of friends who i hungout with every day pretty much and stoped talkn to all of them for him.bc he picked out little thngs he didnt like bout all them.and now we r fighting so bad bc i wnna go hngout with her.

@hayleybug,

Same thing happened to me on Saturday. I ended up not going just so I didn't hear him complain. He wasn't even in town. But theres a reason he doesn't like her. We always fight when I want to go over there.

thats pretty much how i started loosing all my friends was bc either they didnt get along or i didnt wnna fight so i just stoped talkn to all them. ig he has a reason to not wnat me around most of them.but this girl did nothn to him and he still dorsnt wnt me to hngout with her just bc she lives with one of my old friends he doesnt like.and tht other perosn isnt even gonna be with her...its so childish either way.@hayleybug,

my husband is always going out fishing too. or just going out in general. he wants me to make friends here. and I've tried. but I just don't connect with any of the girls here I guess. it's been 3years of living here. I finally told him I don't want friends. and I don't need them. all I need are my kids. he gets upset. but idc anymore lol. fishing and hunting are NOT my thing. he wants me to be a cowgirl. but I'm a city girl. no way in hell I'm gonna be something I'm not. or hang out with girls who just don't click with me.

I say do what you want too. don't let him control your life. do what makes you happy

so true.he always says well u can hngout with me and my friends and im like uhh thats fuckn boring. i dont!wnna go fishing and watch you guys get drunk😒 and its so hard for me yo make friends. its depressing bc i pretty much beg ppl to hngout with me and no one wnats to. but my old friends wpould hngout with me in a second.i feel bad pickn him over them somtimes but i feel like i would have been childish since im hving his baby and stuff. idk im stuck @momma588

see that's what my husband says. I can hang out with him and his friends. and I'm like I have NOTHING in common with any of them. and they are immature. and get on my nerves.

never feel bad for picking other things to do. or for picking someone to hang with besides him. your not his slave. you are your OWN person. don't let him change that. he should be the one to feel childish. he's the one always going out. choosing his friends over you. YOU have nothing to be worried about. do you girly. so you can be at a happy place in your life. enjoy it. @caseysmommy

yeah i wish i had that much back bone. its so much easyer to just listen to him then stress out and shit😒 and tbh me and him dont have anythng in common@momma588

Eff that. I'd cut that off really quick. Don't let him make you feel guilty for wanting to hang out with your friends. Anyone that truly loves you wouldn't try to control you like that unless they really had probable cause. Idk it could just be me. I'm a very independent person and I don't let anyone tell me what I can and cannot do even my boyfriend. But we have a mutual agreement that we don't boss each other around like that. Be strong, and stand your ground 😼

thankz😳@lkitchen

trust me. I need to get some back bone too lol. it's easier to give advice them take it for yourself lol.

but I'm trying hard to,make things better on myself as well. and I don't have much in common with him either. so I totally understand it all honey. @caseysmommy

i just wish some times he would stop!and think about how i feel 😳 biut thankz for talkn with me.its nice to have some one to listen ❤@momma588

he's a man. lol. men don't get our feelings. I hope things get better honey. you and baby deserve to be happy.

and your welcome. anytime you need to talk. message me 😀

@caseysmommy

💜💜💜@momma588