My husband's friend got arrested. he ands his 16yr old son been living with my next door neighbor.…

My husband's friend got arrested. he ands his 16yr old son been living with my next door neighbor. we have no clue when he will get out. neighbor is very upset. my husband and my neighbor decide, without talking to me, that this kid can stay with us week on week off. I have a 3 bedroom house. we are already a 5 person household with number 6 due here any day this month. we already live pay check to pay check. I'm not sure why he thought this would be a good idea. I'm really quite frustrated. I have no patience and I'm constantly trying to avoid choking people out as it is. what do y'all think about this?