I'm really starting to stress the question of who I want in the room with me when the time comes to…

Only my husband will be with me. I can't choose between the aunts so to keep the peace, we're just gonna go it alone. But they'll all be present.

I'm just worried. My friend wants to come but her and my step mom don't get along. And I'm not my step moms biggest fan but, she's family. She's gonna come first. And then my fiancé is military, so when he gets deployed he wants me to go to Illinois with his family so he knows me and his baby boys are safe and taken care of. And she tries telling me what to do and all these things and it's starting to bother me.

@tayek,

have who ever you decide you want dont let anyone bully you into anything!!! This is your moment 💜

@rhia, I try. But I have no backbone. I know I'm going to this time. I just don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings or make anyone mad at me on that day. I don't wanna have my babies around stress or any negativity

I can relate! Our sisters (his and mine) are all so excited. We don't want the bossier ones of course, and we don't want to hurt feelings. In your case I'd make my friend godmom & let stepmom come in ONLY if she can be supportive and quiet lol I kinda see the glass half full tho. @ariellarochelle

you just have to ..you can do it !!!

I'm really happy I have support like this. I don't think my fiancé understands the tension between the two people. @rhia and @tayek