Honestly, sometimes I wish technology wasn't such a big thing. It does come in handy but I've…
Honestly, sometimes I wish technology wasn't such a big thing. It does come in handy but I've realized it takes away valuable time away from people we love and care about because we're so consumed into it. I would love to be able to just sit in a room and just talk to my SO.. But I feel like he can't do that without falling asleep 30 minutes later. We always have to bond by having some form of technology involved. In fact, we didn't really start spending a lot of time together till I gave into finding a TV show we both could watch. Just finished watching said show and now he's asleep. I'm craving an actual deep conversation but will never get it. 😞 I've come to realize a big reason I have social anxiety is because I've grown up typing how I felt instead of saying it. No one in my family was interested in how I was doing. I'm going to make sure my son knows he can come to me for anything and everything.
missing58user·
В ожидании первенца
Exactly this. ♥️ my son will never be more comfortable spelling his heart out on social media than to me. He will know it's okay to talk to me. 👍🏼
jazz·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)
hey tbh it really isnt your fault. being born into technology thats basically the error that you are in. but in my perspective you can change that by just telling him how you feel and how much it really means to you if you guys can verbally communicate. i deal with a different issue with my so he is older so he doesnt understand talking about issues on the internet lol so all i can say is just tell him how you feel and what u need in your relationship and let him know its vice versa keep eachother happy and u both will get far. thats all that matters
Mandy🌺·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@morgans_mommie yess my son and I are going to be best friends 😊
Mandy🌺·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@mumof2 I've tried communicating with him so many times about it but it's like he can't live without it. When he comes home the first thing he does is go on his ps4 and talk to ppl online instead of me. The best time I've ever had with him was when we went camping and we were forced to be off technology. I always just feel I come last on the list because he always says "when I come home, I'm going to shower, eat, play games for free a little bit then we'll watch tv" but his definition of a little bit is playing till 12am and on his days off till 2. So idk what to do tbh
jazz·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)
well hun i go through the same thing with my man he loves playing his games on ps3 lol but hey i figured out how to benefit it. i mean when your so wants to come home all he wants to do is relax after working i get that but you need to give him his time then let him know its your time. you have to be aggressive sometimes to let him know that what u need from him is serious. i will cheer my man on make him feel specail when he is playing the games then boom he gives the same love back.
🌸Taylor🌸·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm the same way except my fiancé and I make sure we have a little pillow talk for 30 minutes or so before we fall asleep at night. And you're such a good mama already for wanting to teach your son that he can come to you if he needs you.❤️