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Diana
Diana
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My doctor never brings up delivery and never says baby all he said is take care of your self or you…

My doctor never brings up delivery and never says baby all he said is take care of your self or you will have a stillborn. He says this at every appointment and since I'm 30 week I'm only 7 to 9 weeks away from delivery shouldn't we be talking about it now? Is he being a dick or is that how high risk specialists are?

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aguilarfamily4ever

shelby

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he's being a dick he should be talking about delivery

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kermi86

Angela

Мама дочки (4 года)

omg I would be finding a new doctor immediately!

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omikya

precious

Мама сына (12 лет)

he's being a dick. I'm only 26 weeks and my high risk doctor talked about delivery options and the time frame

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alicia644

alicia644

Мама троих детей

i agree he's being a dick

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xslowlyxbrokenx

Mindy

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Ive never been told or even mention the word still born by my doctors and I have 9 in the office I go to. They call the baby "baby" Or "Little girl". Idk how old you are but I do know some doctors do have a issue with young moms so the treatment of younger moms are very different. Im 26 and my doctors aren't like that but there is a office in my hometown that is also unwed moms are treated different there too. That why I went to a different doc that 30 mins away

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mommy1990

Shanna Marie

Мама подростка

this is why I refuse male baby doctors. they just don't get it! try

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mommy1990

Shanna Marie

Мама подростка

to find new doc. especially if you're high risk...you don't need the stress.

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lailanotlayla

Laila

Woah, he has no bedside manner. I had a male doctor like this and switched to the sweetest lady

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lailanotlayla

Laila

I'm high risk as well, btw. And I think he just like putting things matter of factly or something. It was stressful

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nathanielsmommy2515

Diana

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@mommy1990 @lailanotlayla I have a lady ob-gyn and she just sent me to the hospital to get a ultrasound when I was 18weeks and to meet with a specialist, I didn't get to pick, which pissed me off cuz I don't want a guy doctor involved at all for personal reasons I thought I get a say on who delivers my baby but my ob says I don't so I just have to deal I guess

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lailanotlayla

Laila

@nathanielsmommy2515, it's hard switching when you're high risk too. It's almost like no one wants to take you. I got lucky that my mom works at the hospital and was able to get one of her friends to push me trough to someone else. I'm sorry :( tell him how you feel maybe?

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yummycake

yummycake

Мама троих детей

i had good docs but wasnt high risk then. they were both guys. i think it is just ur doc wants u to stay healthy but really doesnt have a clue of how to motivate...so he intimidates. but u get to not see him ever again after baby comes. hurray for that. i kept away from my docs...i only go to ultrasound because i trully cant follow directions as to care...and all they going to do is make me stressed out and guilty. so i just go to utlrasound to xheck baby. so far all is good. we will see by birth time how the cookie crumbles.

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