Okay I need to rant . Baby daddy hasn't been working over a week because he quit his job to go back…

Tell him he needs to set his priorities. That's great he went back to school but he needs to work if he wants the weed. He needs to maybe find something else that will do what the weed does maybe go for a jog idk I've never smoked but some other hobbie to help :)

Priorities must be put straight.

I went through almost same thing I tried so hard, and I love him I didn't want to leave and it was the hardest thing to do, but that might be what you need to do for him to get his shit together you have a baby now so focus on your baby and yourself and not on him it just stresses you out which isn't good for baby either tell him maybe when he figures it out you guys can work it out but right now you can't, also do to court and require child support and if he can't pay it they will give you the money and hell have to owe that and give you more once he gets a job etc

helps to have his social security # also, I'd go for custody too because if haven't gone to court he has every right to take the baby and go anywhere in the world without your permission

@karinagrace exactly ...

@mamabearholland, has he changed ? Are you back with him ?? Leaving him has been on my mind the past few days ....

he hasn't changed no we officially broke up Tuesday before I left to Tennessee I gave him almost 2 years to clean up his act and now I'm pregnant again with twins and he hasn't done a thing in fact he told me he was moving to Texas with his mom when he was suppose to start school and get into work with his uncle I don't know what to believe anymore and at this point it's not worth it I constantly told him I'd leave and he'd beg me to stay said he was changing and that he had a job he was starting soon then when I'd stay it changed to he hadn't even gotten an interview yet and that I needed to change also @ilovebabyjosiah

also he quiet weed for about a month went to cigarettes then said he'd quiet that he tore up his rec said that was proof then took the second red he had out of my car and started up again I try and try but only got the minimum and was told I was getting the best, it never gets better @ilovebabyjosiah

and I don't mean that like oh he's an addict always will be, I mean in a relationship from the beginning it just gets worse if it was so amazing from the beginning the worse isn't so bad but when it's bad in the beginning just gets worse from there if you know what I mean, and I had a great time with him at first don't get me wrong I love him that love came from somewhere but it wasn't where a relationship should be even from the start of that makes any sense @ilovebabyjosiah

@mamabearholland I guess some things aren't meant to be ..... And guys never change especially little boys because if I say I'll leave he doesn't care won't chase me .

so then is it really worth it? stressing and crying over something you know won't change and if he doesn't care then it's just more reason @ilovebabyjosiah

sounds so familiar smh!